So I guess when my family asked what I wanted to do for my bridal shower, my answer didn't surprise them. I said, "I just want a fun, relaxing evening with the closest women in my life- no brunch, no restaurant banquet room, and absolutely NO BRIDAL GAMES." I think I may have added a please at the end...
This past weekend I was thrown the most FABULOUS "non-bridal showery" shower, ever. The theme was "bollywood chic", incorporating everything about the Indian culture that I adore. Not one detail was spared.
The celebration was held in my soon-to-be mother in law's backyard, that has the most gorgeous jacaranda tree in the center. Lights were strung all through it, and lanterns hung from the branches.
As guests arrived, they were asked to choose a bindi and place the decorative gem on their forehead.
The food was catered from Red Fort Cuisine, and it was delicious! We ate plateful's of samosas, raita, pakora and naan. Women were jumping up for second's and you know that doesn't usually happen at a bridal shower!
The evening's signature cocktail was my favorite: a pomegranate martini, served in glasses that were HAND-Painted and gemmed by by my mom, and my future mom-in-law. They were SO CUTE!! Each guest got to take one home as a gift.
For dessert, my future sister-in-law, Jennifer made homemade vanilla ice cream, topped with fresh mango and shaved coconut.
Just after dinner a a belly dancer performed and taught us some native Indian dances.
My best friend Kate, and my mom put together gorgeous bright centerpieces, incorporating sliced oranges and my favorite flower: peonies!
As the night turned into a breezy 75 degrees, candles lit the scene, while laughter filled the air. I opened tons of beautiful gifts, as everyone ate, drank and relaxed.
My fee.on.say, Scotchy, surprised me after dinner with his own rendition of "bollywood chic". He wore nothing but a loin cloth, and his old Indian Guide vest that was about twenty sizes too small for him. It was hilarious!
I have to say- many people believe they have the best friends and family in the world. The honest truth is, I DO. I feel so blessed every day by what amazing people I am surrounded by.
I couldn't have asked for a more special evening.
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